The 4 years 1988-1992 were my rock and roll years. I was a singer/songwriter and guitarist trying to make music for money. My vision was simple, to make the music on the other side of the records I listened to growing up. Still, becaise I knew others who achieved that goal, it allowed me to see that goal wasn’t everything. In fact, I learned that all paths really lead us to eat foods of the world and find our own form of influence.
I met and worked with Dave Sharp of the Alarm and grew up as friends with Gwen Stefani of No Doubt. Both people I know personally and I thought they had achieved my utmost dream of going on a world tour. I don’t recall them being any better off than me. You can only sleep in one bed every night. You can only put your leg through one pant leg at a time. Now, so many years later, I realize that in a way I started my own world tour in my mind back then in 1988. I didn’t sell any t-shirts but it was hugely successful. It goes on still today.
For example: when my wife takes me to the Thai place and I try a yellow curry for the first time, or any variation on that. When I go on a small local vacation it is like the Bahamas for me. I don’t write much music these days but when I pick up my guitar and play my old riffs to an empty tall ceilinged room, I am enjoying all the great stuff a world tour can offer. I see that now. The good news is I didn’t have to ever go on a world your to see the influence of my teaching, my fatherhood, my love for my wife. I can see that is all happening now without a tour bus, without millions of dollars. When someone said “the best things in life are free,” she/he was correct. You can have them here at home in your own front yard or on a tour bus to somewhere seeking something that is fleeting and maybe even, not real.